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FACEBOOK HAS TURNED NOT TO BE A SOCIAL NETWORK BUT A SEX NETWORK AND A PLATFORM FOR YOUNG GIRLS TO LOOK FOR MARRIED RICH MEN.


  It is so sad when young girls and boys with so much ahead turn to the social network for sex,look for sugar daddies and mummies we wonder what generation we are bringing up. What happened to “I have to work hard to get that?” The social media has changed a lot where Sex groups are the in thing with the highest number of audiences,it has grown to where campus girls post their pictures and give descriptions of the kind of rich married man they want. 

  “Maggie 23 wants a rich dude , should have a car and own a house , who is willing to spend on her . she will do anything to please him. time for hustlers to bark all their misery out!! come baby come !!!!”-(GROUP ON FACEBOOK)

   This is just one of the few messages posted on a Facebook wall,they range from member of parliament needed,married mad and the list is endless. These young girls are not only loosing respect and their dignity but still are at a high risk of contracting HIV/AIDS and STDs. Is it worth it when you lie on a sick bed dying all for money?

   I have been to college,have friends who were in campus and I know how much girls have needs that you can’t get it all from home. You want to have those nice designer bags,the best clothes,change your hairstyle every now and then but that doesn’t mean you have to get them through spreading your legs.Everything has its time, and it begins from acceptance,accepting that you can’t have that expensive bag but someday you will.

   Everyone has to begin somewhere, last year when I was still in college I did product promotions at supermarkets,did research jobs,till i got a permanent Job few months after graduation. Am happy and proud that all those things I wanted when I was in college ,i saved and bought them. I may not have all I want but am proud to say I earned it.

   Young girls and boys out there,you need to know your worth. If you want people to respect you, you need to respect yourself first. Lead a life that when you look back,you are proud and have set a good example to others. Why break up marriages,looking for married men all in the name of shoes,bags and clothes? Patience and hard work pays.

    We as the youth are the leaders of tomorrow,but we cannot lead and set examples to the future generation like this. We cannot live a life of wanting things easily. You have so much to offer other than between your legs. Lets not do things that we will live to regret. 

  

 
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ABRAHAM LINCOLN MAY HAVE BEEN AGAINST SLAVERY BUT STILL WAS RACIST.


ABRAHAM LINCOLN MAY HAVE BEEN AGAINST SLAVERY BUT STILL WAS RACIST.

“I am not, nor ever have been in favor of bringing about in any way the social and political equality of the white and black races. I am not nor ever have been in favor of making voters or jurors of Negroes, nor qualifying them to hold office, nor to intermarry with white people. And I will say in addition to this that there is a physical difference between the white and black races which I believe will ever forbid the two races living together on terms of social and political equality. … And inasmuch as they cannot so live, while they do remain together there must be the position of superior and inferior and I as much as any other man am in favor of having the superior position assigned to the white race.” – Abraham Lincoln in his fourth debate with Stephen Douglas in the campaign for the United States Senate on September 18th of 1858.

I can put it this way ,he was against slavery but that did not make him anti-racist. It is like saying I don’t like dogs,but I hate to see them chained and abused.

 

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“IF YOU CAN’T FEED A HUNDRED PEOPLE,THEN FEED JUST ONE “-MOTHER TERESA


Hunger kills more people every year than AIDS,there are more hungry people in the world than the combined populations of USA,Canada and European Union. Appreciate the little you got,a child somewhere wishes he could have a sip of water. As you keep complaining how bad your school or work is,how bad the food you ate is,complaining why you can’t have that computer,designer clothes remember somebody somewhere sleeps or died of hunger. Give thanks for what you got.

 

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I CAN DO NO GREAT THINGS ONLY SMALL THINGS WITH GREAT LOVE.


I CAN DO NO GREAT THINGS ONLY SMALL THINGS WITH GREAT LOVE.

“The most terrible poverty is loneliness, and the feeling of being unloved.” MOTHER TERESA

 

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IT DOESN’T MATTER HOW SHE LOOKS,WHAT SHE WEARS ,GOOD OR BAD SHE WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR MOTHER.


IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW SHE LOOKS,WHAT SHE WEARS ,GOOD OR BAD SHE WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR MOTHER.

You will not have your mom forever, but forever you will only have one mom . Appreciate your mum,she is the greatest gift you could ever get.

 

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DISABLED CHILDREN,CHILDREN WITH COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS ARE SEXUALLY ABUSED EVERY SINGLE DAY .


DISABLED CHILDREN,CHILDREN WITH COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS ARE SEXUALLY ABUSED EVERY SINGLE DAY .

Sexually abused children not only loose their childhood but also a great future. Children with disabilities are more prone to sexual abuse every single day. Some of these children can not communicate and some it is hard to tell if abused. This children are abused at home by care givers,relatives,parents and strangers.REPORT ANY CASE OF CHILD ABUSE. LETS SAVE OUR CHILDREN.

 

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STERILIZING HIV POSITIVE WOMEN WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT IS WRONG AND A VIOLATION OF HUMAN RIGHT.


African Countries like Kenya,Cape Town,Chile,Namibia and also Mexico,Venezuela,Dominican Republc among others are known for practicing Sterilization forcefully on HIV positive women without their consent. With more recent revelations it is not only an African issue but global. Every woman has a right to have children with or without HIV. This forceful procedure is not only wrong but a violation of human rights.

Such Violations are conducted on unconscious, non-consenting women who are asked to sign documents which end up to be authorization for these procedures. Some of these women are illiterate and do not understand anything when given these documents to sign. In most cases these women are denied medical services, lured through incentives such as milk for the new born or free vouchers for free Cesarean delivery if they would agree to undergo this procedure. Some women come to find out that they had this procedure during delivery and they signed documents without knowing the contents and are now not able to bare children.

This procedure is considered 99.9 percent permanent method of family  planning and the process is difficult to reverse once done. Whether we believe making this women not give birth will reduce the spread of HIV does not help at all as sterilizing does not protect against sexually transmitted diseases.

Sterilization on women does have health complications like inability to control urine, heavy menstrual flow or none at all. Sterilized women at times have severe abdominal pain and back aches all these caused by post-tubal ligation. Every woman has a right to have children whether HIV positive or not,when they want and who they want with and the time to deliver. The whole decision entirely depends on the woman and no one should decide for this her.

Is this decision to sterilize HIV positive women a secret government policy? And if it was a policy to sterilize HIV positive victims wouldn’t this be stereotyping them? These victims of HIV are part of us,need to have equal rights as us and equal opportunities in terms of employment,health,education and any other basic need like any other person.

Today the HIV woman has the right to decide whether she wants a normal delivery or a Cesarean depending on their condition. But still more women especially in the rural areas don’t know this. Doctors tell them they will deliver HIV positive babies if they don’t do a Cesarean, and the Cesarean will not be done if they don’t agree to be sterilized.

The governments of different countries should come up with policies that uphold sexual and reproductive rights not forgetting justice to be served on the women who had this procedure done to them without their consent.

 

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