With today’s society the image of the modern woman has changed a lot. Gone are the days when women would be seen pulling their skirts down because they were too short or uncomfortable. The woman of today believes little coverage ,cleavage all out is the in thing and what is attractive. The question is ,is it worth it? I always believe you can always look glamorous and decent at the same time without all cleavage out. This doesn’t mean you need to be like a granny but lets put on something that is not too short for office,everything out there that brings you unnecessary attention.
I did my research and 80% of men love to see the cleavage but they would not want to introduce that kind of woman to their family or friends when it comes to a serious relationship. Each day we hear of rape cases that we have to agree have grown tremendously in the recent years. Fathers raping their daughters, and in most cases its due to our dressing. Men are created with the visual mind,they react by what they see. So when you walk in the streets late at night,dressed to be mistaken for a hooker ,raped or men calling you names and talking badly at you. Don’t blame anyone you have brought this to yourself.
We keep complaining where are the good men? A good man does not go after a trashy woman. You have to look presentable,decent and respectable to attract that good man. You will always attract the wrong kind of men that will take take you with less seriousness because you don’t look like one who deserves it.
It is always in the heart, dressing skimpily does not bring you any good but attracts more negative energy towards you. If you want to be respected and held high change your look. If you want to be taken seriously it begins with your appearance. Don’t let great opportunities pass you,be judged because of your dressing yet you have a great heart with so much to offer. Respect is earned and it always has to begin with you. Take yourself seriously if you want to be regarded in the same way,it should always begin with you.